Ok, I'm pretty much a noob at the whole negotiation stuff, and while I've read about some of it, there seems to be no mention of "non-standard" add-on or prep time.
In all honesty, I can get regular vanilla sex at home. What I'm here for is to get to play with the things that I can't get at home. To wit; moderate to heavy bondage, sensory deprivation, and ass (prostate) play.
So, I'm bringing my own toys and restraints, I can do most of the setup myself, but this requires time and a bit of effort, and access to where the party will be held. What I don't know is; Is there pre-existing furniture that would be appropriate? Is use of that furniture exclusive to particular people/class of service? Should I expect to be asked to pay extra for the set-up time, and even more importantly, who is the best person to ask to partner with me? There would be quite a high level of trust needed, as with all bondage situations. How do you ask, politely and tastefully, who the best person to talk to about this would be. I really don't want to partner with someone who would find my tastes DIS-tastefull, you know!
Ok... enough with the blabber-mouth.
Here I stand. I can be no other.
I'll be there on the 20th of March.
(By the way, does anyone know who the forum admin for CW Monger message board is? I used to, a couple of years ago, have a login with them, but it doesn't work anymore, and my new one hasn't been "approved" yet)
