What's the most common newbie mistake?
My guess would be pulling your phone out in the bar is the most common newbie mistake.
I think the biggest first time mistake is going with a lady based on looks alone. For your first time take some time and get a good feel for several ladies. Then pick the one who you are most comfortable with. You will have plenty of tie to explore all types of ladies as you gain experience.
listen to both shooter & passion81. If you want to do a position or use langauge Ask when your negotiating. Ask about anything you want to do in your party. Don't just assume. Basically always Ask,Ask,& ask!!! You can't go wrong by asking! You might not get the answer you want & if your afraid to ask write it on a piece of paper& hand it to the Lady or Ladies at Negotiating time. Beating around the bush dosen't get you closer to what you want. Writing things down is a wise thing. You see these beautiful Ladies & get nervous your mind might go blank. You get excited & you can't think straight.
I agree fellas :-*